Hi All,
11 months in and of course, I know, that things change all the time and nothing stays the same for long....but I thought FOR SURE my 11 month old DD would be STTN at this point! I feel like I have tried EVERYTHING and have worked so hard to be consistent and instill good habits from the beginning, and still...argh!!!!
Here's the current situation. My 11 month old DD is waking up 1-2x a night. There is literally nothing predictable about these wake ups. Some days she has great naps and wakes up 2x. Some days she has not great naps and wakes up 2x. Some days she has great naps and wakes up 1x. You get the picture.
A little background: A month ago, she was STTN for about 2 weeks. It was glorious. Prior to that, she had been getting up 1x around 4-5 to eat and back to sleep. She has always been easy to get back down, esp after feeding. We put her to sleep drowsy but awake. She is crawling and standing and cruising and moving a lot, not walking yet. About 3 weeks ago, she got a bad cold which kept her up a lot during the night because she couldn't breathe laying down. She would be up for up to 1.5 hours at a time unable to sleep and breathe (she sometimes takes a paci to fall asleep, and couldn't breathe with it in). After a week of a cold, she started teething and was up, again, for up to 1.5 hours at a time. This was super unusual for us, since she has always been so easy to put down and re settle. The teething mayhem lasted another week, she now has 2 front teeth (her first). During these 2 weeks, we did anything we could to settle her. While she was sick, we often would have to let her fall asleep on us upright before putting her in the crib. Teething, often I would nurse her to soothe her. I was so scared that these habits would stick but she was able to self soothe and settle on her own again soon enough. However, now that the teeth have poked through and the cold is gone...WHY IS SHE STILL WAKING UP SO MUCH? I try to send DH in to soothe her and she is HYSTERICAL to the point where I have to go in after 10-15 mins and all she wants is to nurse...it's literally the only way to settle her. And she eats! I mean she's nursing 7-15 minutes which I feel like is pretty significant (she's always been a very efficient nurser- 4-5 mins/feed). So...what's going on? I can't believe that I am nursing her 1-2x a night at 11 months!!! When she was sleeping through! What do we do? We're exhausted...
The only aspect I can't complain about, and it's a big one, is that her days are great. She's SO happy and so easy during the day, and has been napping really well. She's also been eating solids pretty well too. She's petite for her age (1st % for height and weight), but she eats 3 solid meals and 2 snacks a day. She is BF.
Here's a sample of our EASY:
Sunday:
7:10: WU for day
8:00: Breakfast Solids
9:20: E
9:45-11:15: S
12:00: Lunch Solids
1:40: E
3:00-4:15: S
4:40: E (2 mins)
5:30: Dinner solids
7:20: E (6 oz bottle)
7:35: S
NW: 3:00 A
Monday:
6:00: WU for day
7:00: E
7:30: breakfast solids
9:00-10:10: S
10:30: E
12:00: lunch solids
1:40: E
2:00-3:40: S
3:45: E (less than 2 mins)
5:30: dinner solids
6:50: E (give a bottle, ate 6 oz)
7:00: S
NW: 1145, 12:30, 5:10
How do we nip this in the bud? I need her to be STTN it's crazy!!! How do we approach these NW? She is really sobbing and standing in her crib almost inconsolable.