Hi!
My spirited baby boy is 6.5 months. He is exclusively breastfed and very big for his age. We've just started solids by BLW, so he practically eats nothing yet.... During daytime he is on a 4h EASY routine, and uses a pacifier to sleep for naps and at BT. He "askes" for the paci and after his wind down ritual, settles happily with the paci awake in his crib. However, at night, he wakes up usually every 2 hours screaming and he wont take the paci. He just wants to nurse to be able to sleep. Some of the times he is hungry but others he just wants confort nursing. After that, he might take the paci and goes back to sleep.
I am sleep deprived and it affects me a lot emotionally and I feel totally desperate
I am thinking of weaning nursing and/or pacifier. I know that if I try to only wean BF, he is going to get really angry and not going to want the paci... I know he is going to cry a lot, even if I am there with him so that he doesnt feel abandoned. My question is, would you wean only BF and offer him the paci? (Hopefully he will eventually take it) or does it make more sense to wean the paci as well so that he learns hoy to self soothe? I dont know whether its worth making him angry if he wont learn to self soothe because of the paci (prop).
Also, if I use PU/PD do you think with this age (6.5 m) I can do it without picking him up? Trying to settle him in his crib? I feel as if PU will stimulate him more when he is so angry...
Please any advice is more than welcome!!! Thank you in advance!!!
By the way this is his EASY routine (spanish schedule)
8h WU and A BLW
9h E BF
11h: S 45 min or 1.5h
A
1pm E BF
A BLW
Between 3 and 4pm (3h after previous A) S during 1.5h
5pm E BF
A
8,15pm bath, E and wind down routine
8,30 BT
He starts waking up at 11pm, 1am, 3am,....
Thank you!!!!!!!!