She won't nap, refuses, she is tired, but it seems to be a game. I don't get it!
Up until 2 weeks ago my daughter was brilliant with naps. She was on a standard 3 hour EASY starting at 7am and you could pretty much set your clock to this girl! She started resisting naps, so we started transitioning her to 4 hour EASY and in that process we seem to have broken her sleep! I'm desperate, I can't live with a crying baby who refuses to sleep.
She takes her own dummy out of her mouth (and a few times has thrown it out of the cot), she stirs and kicks her legs up in the air, she cries, she tosses and turns but mainly she vocally complains (can't really call it talking!). From birth she has been put down awake and settles herself to sleep, with the exception of when she is feeling ill she is generally a sleepy, happy, well spirited baby! I've tried a longer wind down time but the minute I put her in her cot the complaining starts, the dummy comes out and the world comes to an end. I never realised that babies this small could be this adamant on not sleeping!
As an example, I took her into her room an hour and 10 minutes ago! I left after an hour and despite knowing that switching isn't ideal I just couldn't do it anymore. At one point she was crying so hard that I sat with her and she finally looked like she was about to fall asleep but the minute I put her back in the cot her eyes shot open and she smiled as if the 10 seconds that she was drowsy had recharged her batteries! The nanny is in there now trying and she is still complaining and resisting sleep.
She sleeps well in the night (OK last night no so much but she had had vaccines yesterday so for the minute I'm putting it down to that).
Like I said, before this she was brilliant! She'd look tired and I'd take her up, change nappy, close curtains, have a little talk, put into gro bag, give her dummy and I would come out of the room leaving her sleepy in the cot and she would settle herself. No fuss and certainly nothing like what I'm seeing lately. What changed? I don't understand!!! Surely after over 2 1/2 hours awake she is tired and WANTS to sleep? God knows that after each sleep battle with her I'm tired and want to sleep!
Any insight would be so greatly appreciated!