I offered today to help with my friend's DD who is 3 in June and has never had healthy sleep habits and screams for HOURS at BT. She sometimes naps around 3 ( only in the car) and gets up around 5 ish and is often up past 9. Pending her actually wanting my help I was thinking a Gradual Withdrawal plan with Mom sitting quietly in the dark ( she is in a BGB) repeating "C, it is sleepytime , you are OK" or would a WIWO be better. LO is VERY Spirited and LOUD and NEVER stops. I am hoping a quiet chat about routine and maybe turning the TV off sometimes might come about as I think LO is usually over stimulated.
She is going through a rough time right now with her DH and the screaming BTs and lack of sleep are not helping. Older DD is just as intense and has ADHD. No idea if she will let me lend a hand, but I do hope she will and I wanted to confer with you experts so I don't lead her astray. Right now I am so grateful for all the Shh.pat, routine, awareness of OS and OT and all that PUPD I did back in the day! Pays off in a big way when I have 2 12 hour solid sleepers that wait nicely for their clock and "tick-lights" to turn on so they may get up. Whew, what would I have done without BW!