Thanks for the reply. Waking every 1.5 hours is pretty frequent! sometimes I feel like i'm going a bit mad!
I re-read the section in 'the babywhisperer solves all your problems' on PUPD and realised I was doing it incorrectly for her age. I have changed and now follow the 6-8 month technique, which seems to work much better. (fingers crossed, I don't want to jinx it).
I have read about 6 books on sleep and instituted lots of changes over the months, (small things like blackout blinds and red nightlights, white noise etc) but nothing has made any difference at all.
I think you are totally right. her skin has virtually resolved since I gave up soya and dairy, we don't have to use the steroid cream anymore and she is a different baby during the day. so much happier. But thank you for your post, I checked everything again and guess what?!
- the doctor had prescribed me calcium when I gave up dairy for the allergy, and guess what - it has soy in it. at the same time, I was prescribed domperidone, to ensure I had enough milk, as this was a bit of a questionmark. I now have heaps of breastmilk, but guess what? Domperidone has milk in it!
They were the only two things I hadn't checked, as I trusted that the doctor prescribing them would have checked them, as they were prescribed in response to our allergy diagnosis. Obvs not. Sometimes it is a bit frustrating that doctors don't seem to check things thoroughly. As her allergy to milk is severe (IgE mediated, potential anaphylaxis), I think this may indeed be causing a degree of discomfort.
I am going to continue PUPD at bedtime, but not change the other sleeps. NW's I will feed unless she has fed recently and day naps I will do in the sling, unless she seems particularly settled. If she is settled, I might be brave and try a daytime nap, but only if we both have the energy. I am nervous about messing up her daytime sleep and the impact that being subsequently overtired might have on our night sleep.
Last night I did PUPD for bedtime and only needed to pick her up 4 times, and she settled without much crying at all. Just a very gentle cry, no leg thrashing. She woke first last night after 2 hours, and I just kissed her face for 3 minutes and she went back to sleep for another hour, so I am hopeful that we can start to extend this first sleep a bit, even if the other NWs don't change for a few weeks (until the soya and milk are out my system again).
Does this sound ok? Is it OK to resettle by kissing her face, if I stop before she is fully asleep?
Thanks,
J x