Hi there and thanks for the response!
She's definitely going through changes, but I do think the worst of it is over. It's clear that her sleep cycles are more pronounced, she is more alert and resistant to naps etc, but we're trying really hard to get through this without creating any more problems in the long run - like you said.
But I still don't understand why she would be more resistant with
me! It's really disheartening
Do you think smelling the milk and not settling is really a thing? She shouldn't be hungry really at that time...
It's so frustrating being her mummy and not being able to settle her...
Good to know your 4-month problems disappeared though!