Maya- thanks for the hugs. Great points about the stimulation. Especially when OT.
Katherine, I always appreciate your valuable input. Thank you so much!
I agree it's currently OT along with whatever began the cycle. Yes, he's teething... canines are halfway through. Those were my thoughts, too... if he has a good day, to start capping nap at 1 hr. We have had a few 1 hr naps that don't seem to change the following WU, so does it take time for that to change? You actually suggested on fb to shave 15 min off nap at a time, and we were on our way there when sleep went awry. (And some sickness, etc... mixed in).
Oh, I know what you mean Katherine...thank you for the suggestion because it's good to evaluate all possibilities when sleep goes south. I am scared of doing early BT because he has waken as early as 4:30 or will have long NWs. One day 2 weeks ago he woke at 3 and was up for 2 hours. I also thought about him being LSN, and I went back and scoured previous sleep logs and it seems like that no matter what I did, he gave me consistent 10-10.5 nights, with an occasional 11 hr night mixed in. He was also averaging 12 or so hrs/day back at 18 months. And when he was younger, we always did early BT, around 5:30-6:00pm, but NWs were plentiful and his total sleep always added to about 12-13 (for when he was under 1yo). Also as a baby, he never met the 15-16 hrs/day that I heard of. He was always about 2 hrs below the average. Some posts on here helped me finally realize that he might be LSN and it was such a relief in a way. I constantly felt like I was doing something wrong. I've come to learn that it is such a HUGE guessing game and that in the end, our bubs will come out fine. The ride there, however, is devastating for parents, isn't it? Haha.
I am so confused... haha. I wish you could make it go away, too. LOL. Thanks for the hugs. I had been positive for so long regarding his sleep and now am back to feeling so exasperated. I also feel extremely guilty because there are more important things in life than obsessing over his sleep!
As for today, I think we'll do an early lunch and nap, and hopefully an early BT. We'll see if that yields a good night sleep. Thanks so much!!!