SO GLAD i read these posts!! my DD is 10 weeks and i have a 2.8 year old

I just don't have the time 20-30 min to shh pat her back to independent sleep at the 30-45 min mark! Also when she falls asleep in her car seat, she wakes at the 30 min mark!! so if i take my toddler out for a walk to the park, baby will wake up and i would have to swing the car seat to get her back to sleep, or she just stays awake until 3 hr feed time bit then is tired ... so i feed her before that nap and my whole EASY is thrown off!
She does fall asleep in her bassinet pretty easily on her own, but wakes 30-45 min in. if i babywear her, she squirms at the 30 min mark and i stuff the soother back in and she's out again. but i'm also afraid of her getting used to only sleeping well in my carrier!! how worried should i be of this?
I will try W2S for both bassinet and car seat catnap problems and see what happens. Sometimes she doesn't barely seem hungry at the 3 hr mark and only feeds one side. So perhaps i feed her the other side before her nap to top her up and see if she sleeps longer?
Activity times are varying between 1:10 and 1:30... I can't seem to figure it out either
