Okay, I just went through the plan in the first link with a fine-toothed comb and I have a bunch of questions for you or for anyone who would like to respond. (Will go on to read the other links in a bit.)
1. Because my baby is a tummy-only sleeper, he tends to arch his back a TON when he's not happy with his sleep situation. How do I do the Gentle Removal Plan when he's arching? Especially the holding his mouth shut part.
2. He's six months old now and doesn't really root anymore. Does the plan change based on his age?
3. The instructions say that when the baby doesn't resist and is nearly out, to put the baby back in bed. And the note about Betsy with her baby who won't let her keep her mouth closed, do I pick him up and rub his back? I ask because my LO sleeps in his crib and falls asleep there. How do I modify?
4. How do I determine if he's a good napper or not? He takes naps, but requires me going in and putting in his pacifier most of the time to fall asleep.
5. About doing it at night, how does the baby know the difference between nighttime sleeping and daytime sleeping? When we first started sleep training him (ie - getting him to sleep in his crip instead of in our arms), we weren't able to separate day and night sleeping - we had to do it consistently for every sleep period.
6. It says, "The most important time to use the Pantley’s Gentle Removal Plan is the first falling asleep of the night." But at the beginning, it says, "When your baby wakes, go ahead and pop his pacifier into his mouth." So, do I start at the very first going to sleep period, before he's fallen asleep for the night, or do I wait until he wakes up first, which is usually at 11pm?
7. Will we eventually get to the point where we can lay him in his crib without his pacifier and he'll go to sleep on his own? Needing some reassurance here!
Sorry for all the questions! And thanks so so so much for helping out!