Hello,
My DS is 3.5 months old and has suddenly developed a negative association with naps. When he's very tired, he will easily nap with little help - I just swaddle and put him down and he rarely fusses before he's asleep in 5-10 min. The problem is that this is usually after his WT is way too long and so he has a 30 min nap and can't resettle even with my help. The past couple of days he has started to scream when I walk into his room to try to begin his routine after an age appropriate WT. He is super mad and won't stop crying until he's at the point of exhaustion 😭. What went wrong? He loves to play and be held and explore and hates/fights naps unless he's OT. I never left him to CIO but have always had difficulties settling him for naps....now it's just terrible and as a result, I'm stuck with 4 30 min naps and an OT baby. Please help! I'm afraid he's beginning to hate his room/crib....
His schedule the past couple of days has looked like this. I know his WT is way too long but again, I can't get him to settle down when he should. He's usually very very tired once he wakes up after his short nap so I have to deal with Mr. cranky for most of the day. Note that I have always had difficulties with naps and only the past 2 weeks have gotten a 2 hour second nap. The rest are usually 30-45 min.
W and F - 7am ish
S - 9am - 9:30am
F - 10am
S - 11:45am - 12:15pm
F - 1pm
S - 2:30 - 3pm
F - 4pm
S - 5-5:30pm
F - 6:45pm
S - 7:30pm
F - 2-3am no dream feed