Thanks ladies. I know the 4mo regression gets attention a lot- unfortunately we've been battling it since before 3 mos.
like I said, things seemed to
Improve or develop/change at 4 mos.
if Anything he's seemed less hungry during the day (going 3.5-4hr some cycles if naps fell that way) but I make sure to lessen the gap closer to bedtime so he shouldn't be hungry. If he wasn't waking at 10:30, I could think hunger but I know he's not hungry yet at that point. There really seems to be no rhyme or reason to the wakings other than I know his OT for bed use to be waking shortly after sleeping crying.
Could day sleep (and therefore ut/OT) cause that frequent of wakings? I would think ot- a little more restless, a few wakings, and ut a waking that stays awake for awhile and/or wants to play.
if I shorten last A time to make up for the OT from stretching him more in the day, and let's say he ends up going to bed UT then, it would just take him a bit to go to bed/maybe false start but that should be the worst of it if I simply put him down a little early, right?! thonking back that's what was happening starting a month ago- he'd just lay there playing for an hour, or would fall asleep and then wake a min later kicking/playing so on. Now I know he probably needed more A time before bed or throughout the day.
Gosh sure wish there was a formula to follow!!