Thanks for your response! Yes, it does seem like some things have changed since we started the 4 hour routine so maybe some of those leaps/milestones are impacting DS’s sleep. As far as tired signs, he might yawn or rub his eyes. If so, I’ll start the nap wind down then, otherwise, I had been going by the clock. Lately though, when going by the clock, I’ve caught a yawn/eye rub when he’s in the crib AFTER I’ve already done the wind down. Prior to starting the 4 hour routine about a week and a half ago, I had been doing the wind down somewhere between 75 and 90 minutes and naps were still a struggle and just as short.
He sometimes self-settles for naps or, if not, I had been doing shh-pat. However, since things went haywire a few days ago, he has been very squirmy and hard to do shh-pat with so if he's not crying more than the mantra cry I’ve been letting him try to self-settle instead of intervening because I don’t seem to be helping. If he doesn’t settle after 10-20 min, I’ve just tried for a nap later or moved him to the swing, where it’s likely that he will take a long nap. I tried wake to sleep once or twice in the past but could try it again and see if that works.
This is from a day last week when we were having better luck with naps in the crib, he woke early that day so I just started the routine when he woke:
Wake: 5:45am
E: 6:00-6:30
S: 7:55-9:00 His nap had stretched out to over an hour straight, which was a great improvement, but I couldn’t resettle him after that.
E: 10:00-10:25
S: 10:50-11:37 Resettled and slept from 11:40-12:15
E: 2:00-2:45
S: 3:49-4:23 tried earlier for a nap but wasn’t having luck
E: 5:45-6:10 Did last feed and bedtime early since he seemed tired
Bedtime: 6:15
And this is today’s (he again woke early but went back to sleep so the routine is adjusted a bit):
E 6:00-6:25
S 6:25-7:15
E 8:20-8:45
S 9:35-11:10 I did the wind down at 1 hr 45 A but he wasn’t settling in the crib. I let him try to settle for a bit then moved him to the swing.
E 11:15-11:45
S 1:30-2:09 Followed tired signs instead and he fell asleep pretty quickly on his own but had a short nap
E 2:15-2:45
S 4:20-4:47 Had short nap in Ergo carrier, I tried for a nap earlier and wasn’t having luck.
E: 6:00-6:30
Bedtime – 6:45
Out of the ordinary wake up at 8:30pm, DH tried to settle him but couldn’t, I ended up feeding him around 9:00 and got him back to sleep at 9:40pm with shh-pat.