Thanks so much for coming back to me.
OK cut a long story short, she had severe reflux from 4 weeks which is now under control with medication which we are thankfully managing to reduce slightly. She was also born with a cleft lip so at 3 months had surgery for that. She was in a really good routine (sleeping in her own bed for most of the night) before spending 8 days in hospital in March and since then has been sleeping beside me, as the surgery was very traumatic for her (surgery, nasal and throat aspirations several times a day for a week etc. Prior to the surgery she had been combo fed with a couple of bottles of thickend milk for her reflux during the day and the remainder breastfeeding (I would have put it at 50/50). Since the surgery, she has completely refused the bottle from everyone so has been exclusively breastfed since then. We started weaning at 18 weeks due to reflux and the fact that she was losing weight from refusing the bottle.
Fast forward to today, she is 6 months next week and weighs 8.7kgs so weight is no longer an issue. I am back to work for 5 weeks now and she is with a childminder 6-7 hours a day who, due to the fact that the baby is refusing bottle, is mixing milk with purees for lunch and snack. Her routine atm is as follows:
7.30am awake and very small breastfeed (never hungry in the mornings)
9/9.30am nap at childminders (self soothes to sleep at CM)
10.30/11 - start lunch (as its spoonfed, it takes a long time!) approx. 200gms puree + 120mls milk
1pm nap self soothes
3/3.30 awake
3.30 snack fruit puree with 120mls milk
5/5.30 nap of about 20 mins
6.30pm breastfeed and puree
7pm Bath
7.30/8pm breastfeed and falls asleep at the breast
All night snacks at the breast - no "real" feed, just snacks
During the night she wakes and roots for me, once she finds the breast she will suckle a little and go back to sleep. I have been keeping her in my bed as up until recently she ha sbeen feeding a lot at night and, as she will not take bottle during the day, I did not want to restrict her milk intake by trying to get her to sleep by herself. Over the coming weeks I am introducing carbohydrates, dairy etc into her diet so I am reassured by her nutritional intake now that she is not solely relying on milk for nutrition. Plus, there has been so much upheaval for her up to now between reflux, then surgery then my going back to work that I didn't want to do anything before now. She is settled at the CM now, who is very good with her. The childminder however does not rock to sleep as she has 2 other babies to look after.
Bedtime routine is rigid, food, bath, story, song, breasftfeed and she falls asleep at breast. Either I leave her in my bed, as she feeds lying down or I move her to her bed with her mobile music on. She will 99% of the time wake several times between her bedtime and my bedtime, which is understandable with all the props she needs to fall asleep (breast, me beside her etc).
Sorry for long post but I want to ensure to paint the full picture!
TIA!