I would really appreciate another pair of eyes on our routine. DD is 9mo now & I feel that her EASY has been changing every 1-2wks since the 3-2 transition. We tend to get EW, make a routine change, things improve & settle for a few days, a week at the most then EW starts again & the cycle repeats.
I've found that she has A times of 3-4hrs, which normally increase during the day (she needs shortest A after Wu, longest A before BT). She also seems to be in the 2-1 already and I have to cap the first nap very short to get a long 2nd one.
The routine which was working a week ago was:
Wu: 6.30 ish
A:3-3hr15
Nap 1: 9.40-10.00 (capped)
A: 3hr30
Nap 2: 1.30-3.30
A: 4hrs
BT: 7.15, fusses a bit, asleep by 7.30
However the last few days she has started waking at 5.40. I've kept the rest of the routine the same but the EW continues. In addition she's fussing more & longer at BT. Yesterday looked like this:
Wu: 5.40
A:4hrs
Nap 1: 9.40-10.00 (capped)
A: 3hr20
Nap 2: 1.20-3.20
A: 4hrs25
BT: 7.15, fussed a lot, asleep 7.45
Then she was awake briefly at 3.30 but resettle easily then awake again at 5.40.
She has recently stopped feeding at night (self-weaned from NFs). I don't know if that contributes to EW as she must be hungry by morning.
Any thoughts on what might be going on & how to get a more stable routine would be appreciated
TIA