Hello
Our little boy has just turned 7 months old. He has always had a good routine, and we are following EASY roughly as set out below:
Awake: 6:30 & Eat
Activity
Sleep: 8:00/8:30 (we have tried to extend this but he became OT and his nap would only be 30 mins)
Awake: 9:30/10:00 & Eat
Activity
Sleep: 12:00
Awake: 1:15 & Eat
Activity
Sleep: 3:30
Awake: 4:15 & Eat
Activity
BF & Sleep: 6:30/7:00
(NB: we are trying to lengthen the activity times bit by bit.)
He is a really good sleeper... ...when he's down! Currently, if he gets a good 3-3.5 hours of naps, he sleeps well at night. Usually just one wake up sometime between 1-3am for a feed. He goes straight down after being BF.
We started PUPD when he was 5 months old after he started to scream
a lot before bedtime, and refuse to nap in his cot. There was a lot of
really loud screaming: 3 hours' worth on a couple of nights. He's very determined, which makes him all the more lovable. Our first foray into PUPD took about 2.5 hours - we did not bother counting the PUPDs! It took about two weeks of really hard effort until we got down to 15-30 minutes and - happily - with little if any screaming, and none at all at the volume when he started. Bedtimes were so much calmer, and our fear pretty much disappeared.
Now, while the bedtimes remain really calm, we are trying to get him to get to sleep without our intervention. While PUPD has been a revelation for us, we are concerned that he has become too reliant on PUPD. He still needs around 1-3 PUPDs, but we are keen to cut these out, particularly as one of us has back problems. PUPD and back problems are not a great mix with an increasingly heavy baby. He's a big lad (around 10kg).
Does anyone have any relevant experience or tips on removing the reliance on PUPD?
Thanks
LDC