It might be worth capping the nap a little more.
My spirited was wound up by books and songs until about 2.5yo, so we did shower/bath, massage, jammies, cuddle and chat about the day (initially I just talked through what I knew he'd done and eventually he joined in - this pays off now because it helps cap off the day and reduce things they're ruminating on before sleep and also when they get to school and you want to know what's going on because they're in the habit of talking about their day), then into bed.
Agree with the fear of missing out, definitely worth considering in your plan.