Hi! Hoping for some advice for DD2 who will be 6 months next week. I think she's going through a wonder week (mental leap 5) and also maybe starting to transition from 3 to 2 naps, so things have been tough for the last couple weeks.
She was doing anywhere from 11-12 hours a night (8pm-7am), but in the last couple weeks, has woken crying at 5 or 6am. Sometimes DH or I can soothe back to sleep, but it's been tough because the day starts early and it's an OT cycle from the get-go. I put her down awake and she falls asleep on her own, but again, the last couple weeks have been a hit and miss. She's needed help with her 2nd nap a couple times, and today I had to hold her to get her to do the catnap. Gah, I thought we were past this!
Some questions:
1. DD2 has to come on the school run in the mornings and she'll sometimes fall asleep in the car on the way home for 5-15min. This is generally before the 2.5hr mark, so I usually wake her up when we get home and she gets her only solids meal of the day. How long do I wait before putting her down again? Tired signs are tricky at this age!
2. Because of the NW (sometimes 4-5am, or 5-5:30am) or the EW (6-6:30am...Ideally I'd like 7am to coincide with DD1), I'm so hesitant to push A times!
3. I tried extending the 2nd A time to 3 hrs a couple days ago after a glorious 2.5 hrs first nap, and it was a DISASTER. Had to rock her to sleep for 2nd nap, and then she only slept 40min! Catnap was a good 40min, but then bedtime was also a fight.
Our current schedule:
7am - E (bf)
9am - E (solids)
9:30am - S (this can last anywhere from 1hr 15min to 2hr 30 min!!)
11:30am - E (bf)
2:00pm - S (usually 1hr 15-30min)
3:30pm - E (bf)
6:00pm - S (catnap - I have been capping at 20min unless the other naps were horrible. She's needed help getting down for the 2nd nap or this nap this last week!)
6:20pm - A
7:30pm - E (bf)
8:00pm - S
11:00pm - E (df)