Hi ladies sorry for a late reply. DD was sick first then I got it from her and then I was away. Anyhow we just did a few days of no nap but so far it's not going good. She is exhausted, cranky, is having multiple meltdowns during the day, and is having 1.5hr long NWUs due to OT. To be honest I just don't think she can go without nap.
From our experience the only way for her to end up with an 11hr solid night is if her day is max 10/10.5 hrs long. But that's no possible since 11hr night leaves us with a 13hr day. It just doesn't add up.
I know you mentioned that her nights supposed to lengthen but so far it's not happening and she is so miserable.
I'm debating if I should bring back her nap. I can see she is really struggling.