I could use some help as I struggle with my touchy baby who is now 4 months.
Here is our current EASYroutine:
E: 7:15 (after having a DF at midnight and a bottle and back down around 4:30/5 if needed)
A: 7:15-9:00 (1.45). Tummy time, taking sis to school, watching mom do dishes, etc.
S: 9:00-10:45 (1.45) in stroller while I get morning walk.
Y: exercise
E: 10:45
A: 10:45-12:15 (1.30). Face to face time with mommy, doing chores in baby bjorn, looming at reflection in mirror, sitting up in Bumbo seat, etc.
S: 12:15-1:45 in crib (1:30). Some stirring at 45 min mark but then self soothed and goes back to sleep for another 45
Y: lunch and housework/email/projects
E: 1:45
A: 1:45-3:45 (2.0) often with an outing to the grocery store or to pick up dry cleaning or something.
S: 3:45-4:30 in crib (.45)
Y: prep dinner
E: 4:30
A: 4:30-6:30 with school pick up, reading time, 2nd bottle, bathtime, etc.
S: 6:30
Y: dinner and bed
I'm trying an earlier bedtime tonight because my LO has been crying for up to 90 min at her7pm bedtime each night and I haven't been able to successfully resettle her. She seems more irritated by my interference. I'm feeding her more (up to 6oz instead of 4) so I don't think she's hungry. I'm guessing OT? No teeth yet. We're transitioning from 4 naps to 3 so I'm thinking an earlier bedtime might Help. What I know for sure is naps get shorter throughout the day. Her best nap is in the morning and her activity time increases from 1.30 in the morning to 2 full hrs after her midday nap and after her 45 min catnap. Does this seem right? I'm wondering what else I can do for an easier settling at night. We have a good wind down routine that takes about 20-30 minutes. Massage with Vaseline (she has very dry skin so only takes bath 2-3 times a week, 2nd bottle (cluster), then Jammie's, swaddle, close the curtains, turn lights off, turn on humidifier, tell her it's time for sleep, kiss her forehead and lay her down. What else should I do or not do to help her settle with fewer tears? I'm personally struggling with extreme anxiety as the nights of crying continue. I could use any and all tips please!