Hi, Dad here
What sort of length nap do you get from him?
Mornings 30mins, very occasionally 1hr, afternoons the same
Could you possibly note down what actually happens for a few days and post it for us to look at?
Detail for 3 days below, note he always goes to sleep in arms, never goes down awake.
Saturday
19:20 Slept 5 hrs 40 min
Sunday
01:25 Slept 2 hrs 5 min
03:50 Slept 46 min
04:48 Slept 1 hr 39 min
10:00 Slept 34 min
13:15 Slept 49 min
18:38 Slept 42 min
19:20 Slept 46 min
20:20 Slept 10 min
20:40 Slept 3 hrs 17 min
Monday
00:20 Slept 12 min
00:37 Slept 2 hrs 16 min
03:55 Slept 8 min
04:12 Slept 1 hr 47 min
08:50 Slept 1 hr 5 min
11:20 Slept 40 min
14:10 Slept 29 min
18:45 Slept 2 hrs
20:50 Slept 39 min
23:30 Slept 4 hrs 14 min
Tuesday
23:30 Slept 4 hrs 14 min
04:10 Slept 2 hrs 20 min,Woke few times and stirred a lot too
10:01 Slept 23 min
12:50 Slept 55 min
18:45 Slept 1 hr 44 min
20:45 Slept 3 hrs 5 min
Toddler’s typical day,
up at 630 to 7
breakfast 8
play indoors for 2 hrs while get dressed and housework
go out to park or similar to occupy toddler for a couple of hours, approx 10–12. sometimes lunch out.
1230 lunch
130 to 2 goes for afternoon nap and wakes 3 to 330. 1 to 130 sleep, sometimes slow going to sleep but he is happy in cot and chatters away.
if wakes at 3, an activity in house e.g. paints. if wakes at 330, need to afternoon tea at 4.
dad comes home around 5ish and plays with them.
up to bath at 6, then bedroom for bottle and book, normally goes to bed around 7 to 730. occasionally wakes in night, when that happens sometimes a hand on his chest settles him. occasionally stands up inconsolable and takes a while to settle him, sometimes bringing him to our bed, sometimes nothing will help!
Have you had a look at the FAQs and read the info on PUPD
I have tried the PUPD but not consistently, last time i gave up after 1 1/4 hrs....Baby settles very quickly in arms, but when being put down starts crying immediately, often before even touching the cot. i put my hand on him and tap and shush but no help.
there was one night around a month go that i put him down sleepy and he rolled over and went to sleep, bot never before or since...
PS Is still having two or three bottles in the night.