Hi there,
Posted a few weeks ago and have been plodding on but still struggling so thought I'd try again for some help/suggestions!
12.5 month old has been napping 30 mins at 10am and 1.5 hrs at 2pm.
She's at daycare 2 days a week and does 30 mins closer to 10.30 and 1 hour closer to 2.30.
Her signs for a tweak in naps in the past has been refusing the arvo nap and resisting bedtime.
The last two to three weeks has been really mixed. She's started to resist bedtime now...usually it's 7/7.30 however these last few weeks it's been more like 8.30/9

Then last week she started refusing the morning nap. On these days she either got 10 mins in the car and wen tto sleep for2 hrs at 12.30 or stayed up and went to bed at 11.39 for 2 hours. These days there was no bedtime resistance.
I was thinking if she's coping with one nap and sleeping same length across the day (2 hrs) and going to bed easily for 11-12 hrs it was a win, win.
I spoke to daycare and they said they said she's taking longer to go to sleep which is why she's not down at 10 and 2 nut didn't really have any other view on the matter.
I should add she's going 5 days at day care in a couple of weeks.
So with all this I thought this week I'll try and pop her down at 10 give it 10 mins and if not luck get her up and go for one nap around 11.30/12...
This week she's gone straight to sleep at 10am

and I've woken at 30 mins, then she gone down at 2 three days for an hour and today for 1.5.
Bedtimes have been a nightmare all week!
I'm nervous about going to one nap as it doesn't quite seem the right timing, or does it? I'm not sure how I can sort out the bedtime resistance though...