Really DS1 is ASN/LSN kid and also impressed me in first months. Settled with a good routine later but was struggling with his A time and naps firstly. DS2 is even worse LOL:).
So we are 11.5weeks and he is 7-10days last due date so I would say he is 3mo, usually goes through his wonder weeks a tad earlier what just confirms my theory. Our last working routine was:
9-9:45 nap - I wake, but this nap was getting shorter gradually from the moment his was born
4pm nap - started as 1h nap, gradually went to 20min; if he slept 2:15+ on second nap he wakes by himself here after 20-30min
And now we are facing UT wakings on second nap after 0:45/0:55/1:10/1:30 - in stroller he sleeps well (not even rocked, just in his winter suit on the balcony). Until 2/3 weeks ago he slept great also in his crib on this nap but right now he will wake every 5/10/20min after some moment in his nap and I can resettle and his eyes I closed but after 5/10min we have the same. I was thinking maybe it's developmental, waited 2/3 weeks for things to settle but nap is getting worse and worse and he starts to refuse 3rd nap. Soooo I need to push that routine a bit and I am thinking... should I leave 45min in the morning and push second nap or just cut morning on 30min. I think he still need some catnap in the evening but yesterday after stroller pushed nap of 2:15 he was resisting until 4:45 when he finally drifted for 15min.
I feed every 2,5-3,5h. Usually 7:15/7:30, 10:45, 2:15/2:30, 5:00, 7:15 and DF 10:45. He STTN.
I need an advice but also hand holding... I feel and I know he is LSN. But as his A are on the high side I am just afraid I won't be able to push further as it so unusual... really he is LSN. He can happily play for 2h without a peep like this morning. Ahhh why I am so afraid to push slightly more? It's I guess because he is off the books routine and I am afraid I am doing something wrongly.