I have a 4 day old DD3. I was wondering when we can start EASY and shh/pat. I found baby whisperer and EASY when DD1 was 4 months old. Changed our life. When DD2 came along, I was determined to not repeat the same mistakes. However, I really don't have much of a recollection of "getting down to business" until she was 3-4 weeks old. I knew I'd use this again with DD3. Here we are one day 4 and shh pat doesn't seem to be working. I feel as though I'm doing it correctly but I've been spending close to an hour shh patting with no success. Is she too young. Should I relax a little bit? I'd love some advice/encouragement. I and my back thank you.