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12 mo suddenly hard to settle to sleep
« on: April 04, 2017, 15:11:05 pm »
Hello, I've been following BW strategies from birth and have so far had a very easy baby. A few weeks ago we were at the point where we could put him down to bed almost fully awake and he'd get himself off to sleep and sleep all through the night and have two good naps. BUT, for about the last 4-5 days this has all changed. We will do his same bed time routine, give him a cuddle and lullaby until almost asleep, put him down and he immediately cries, stands up and gets very upset. It can take about 30 mins now to get him to sleep. He is doing this for his two naps too. During this period and once he is asleep he has then slept all through the night as normal, but he has also woken once or twice in the night and on being picked up will immediately go back to sleep on either mine or my husbands chest. No need for milk or anything else. Then on placing back in the cot he immediately gets distressed again. Please shed some light on the cause of this and how to fix it. He also seems to be very hungry (normally has a big appetite but these last few days is eating even more), he's also a bit more 'needy' and wants to be held a lot. He doesn't seem ill and eating well and went at the park etc has a great, happy time.
Last night I was very tired and just brought him into my bed (not done that before) and he went straight off to sleep and slept all through the night.
Any thoughts please?!....will my easy going, good sleeper come back??

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Re: 12 mo suddenly hard to settle to sleep
« Reply #1 on: April 05, 2017, 18:51:17 pm »
And today he had his 1 year vaccinations :-(
.....any thoughts?  ???

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Re: 12 mo suddenly hard to settle to sleep
« Reply #2 on: April 10, 2017, 06:51:35 am »
Hello,

How are things now?

There could be a number of things at this age, regressions, leaps, growth spurts, teeth, change in sleep needs.

Could you post his routine? Some LOs drop their 2nd nap around now.

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Re: 12 mo suddenly hard to settle to sleep
« Reply #3 on: April 10, 2017, 20:32:43 pm »
Hello, my mummy intuition kicked in after a few days of it not settling and on the day I booked a GP appointment for a check up he had ear discharge so poor boy had an ear infection. He's back to his happy self now thankfully and back sleeping through the night.

One thing that has remained is that he likes to be fully asleep when my hubby or I put him down in his cot at bedtime otherwise he gets very upset when we leave the room. Any tips on helping that?

I think he is coming up to the 2-1 nap transition as he is able to stay awake for longer in the morning. Is this age ok for 1 nap a day?

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Re: 12 mo suddenly hard to settle to sleep
« Reply #4 on: April 11, 2017, 16:42:28 pm »
I think he is coming up to the 2-1 nap transition as he is able to stay awake for longer in the morning. Is this age ok for 1 nap a day?

Yes this is prime time for nap dropping really. You can start to cut one nap back now. You will end up with long days and short nights probably but it will come good in the end!

From 2 to 1 nap transition (10-12m and older)

One thing that has remained is that he likes to be fully asleep when my hubby or I put him down in his cot at bedtime otherwise he gets very upset when we leave the room. Any tips on helping that?

Well we did a lot of gradual withdrawal but Olly was a bad sleeper. You could try some WI/WO maybe?

Getting back on track using Walk In/Walk Out (WI/WO)