-I need to continue nursing for medical reasons but on a st routine, I would never nurse to sleep except during nw. I only have a few months to go.
I hope you didn't feel I was implying you should stop. Many members like to continue BF for an extended period,it's fine. I was only looking for information.
On the subject of information, can I get a little more please?
n1 10-12pm (I'm only able to do this after a short a time because of nursing/sleeping on me)
This nap looks a bit too early but I'm not sure what you mean that it needs to be after a short A time because of nursing/sleeping on you. Can you expand on that please? Would it be possible to extend this A time now to the 4hrs(+) we were talking about previously?
n2 3-4pm
Is this nap 1hr or is it 30 mins in arms?
I think for your LOs age it is likely that you do ned to move towards the one longer nap and one CN.
At this point I would not increase the A time before BT as this could lead to OT which can show at NWs. That A time before BT comes after a CN not a long nap so it wouldn't be the place that I would increase. Rather I'd shift nap 1 later, have it long, shift nap 2 to where it needs to be to allow for a good A time before and after it so there is as little resistance to both the CN and BT...and be open minded about BT. With the 7am WU you are getting now I wouldn't even try BT until 8pm to give 11hr night but it's when the naps are positioned during the day which can alter how well he sleeps.
do you think we should try 1 nap?
At this point it would be a huge leap to go to 1 nap. LO needs to manage a 5hr+ A time before the nap and again after it. Moving from a first A time of only 3hrs directly to 5hrs could be terribly difficult. Instead I would move that nap gradually later so that it is more of a smooth transitional phase and when the 2-1 actually comes it is more logical to do so looking at the routine. Hope that makes sense.
With 4.5hrs first A time for instance:
WU7
A 4.5
S 11.30 - 1.30
A 3
S 4.30 - 5.00
A 3
BT 8pm
night 11hr
Hopefully you can see here that with the first A time being less than 5hrs it is very hard to get through the rest of the day without another nap. He'd have to stay awake the 4.5hr before nap 1 and then stay awake for something like 5hrs after the nap with a 6.30pm BT which then relies on a 12.5hr night. But also I think you can see it is possible to move towards that longer first A time and still fit a CN in the day. There are also options to cap nap 1 at 1.5hr or to reduce the CN to 20 or 10 mins depending on nap resistance or BT resistance.
Hope that makes sense.