It's been a struggle and I really don't know what to do!
I know the EASY method in and out, the shh pat, and the whole gamut. But I can't seem to implement anything for my baby.
I don't even want to tell you all the bad habits that I've reinforced because I'm embarrassed.
The gist, though, is that I can't get my almost 6 month old baby to sleep anywhere but the stroller (for naps) and in my bed (at night) with frequent NWs every hour or 2 with me needing to nurse her back to bed.
As a younger infant, she was sleeping, not through the night, but went at least 8 hours without needing a feed. Somehow all of our progress got away from us...which probably started at the 4 month SR (probably though a little after the 3 mo mark).
My question is, how I undo all of this? She sleeps in the stroller for naps because I can't get her to sleep in the crib at all. I am traumatized from the shh-pat because my oldest screamed through his first year of life with me using that technique and I will not subject another screaming baby through it. I know the reasoning for it - but I need another method! Because my daughter will arch her back, and scream until she's hoarse, and even though she's my youngest, I can't hear the screams. I feel like I'm torturing her. All I want is for her to sleep independently.
I'm also embarrassed to say that we aren't even on the 4 hr EAS yet, more like 3 hours. But again, naps are a struggle and if I want to remain in her windows then I have to rock her in the stroller.
Part of the reason that we are at this place is because I have a 3 yr old at home. I can't disappear for hours at a time trying to get LO to sleep, while ignoring her sister. Do you think I should wait until she is at camp to really try? But I'm nervous, I really don't know how to begin again.
Pacifiers have been a no-go, too.
Any advice? I'm totally lost.