We always roll him back over onto his back once he’s fallen asleep to avoid the sids risk. We haven’t bothered with w2s because of how squirmy he gets during his transitioning. Like, it’s unreal how much he twists and moves around even with us holding. I think we both assumed he’d just kick around and wake himself fully, since even when we held him in our arms through a sleep transition he would immediately kick his legs the second we put him down regardless of how long he’d been asleep for.
Since starting PU/PD I’ve been trying to do the rocking motion in crib to calm him and it doesn’t seem to work
although I’ve only tried it after he’s been crying and not initially after setting down. It seems the quickest way to calm him is to roll him on his side and pat his back. But sometimes we have the issue where we’ve done this for 20-25 min, and no matter how slowly we roll him back over he half wakes and cries. So we’re trying not to continue being a prop by needing to keep a hand on him after he’s fallen asleep.
Initially laying him to sleep in the past, though we did have to hold him to sleep, within minutes he was passed out and we didn’t have to stay in the room for the initial 20 min window. Only when he woke early from a nap or night sleep we’d end up in there for 30 min+.
As far as routine goes he stays awake for about 2 hours before getting sleepy. We wait for his cues though. Sometimes he’s sleepy a few min before or a few min after and that’s when we’ll move to get him in the room.
It’s completely random how it affects his sleep. Sometimes he’ll sleep through his own jolts. But more often than not we expect him to wake 40 min in. When we go to hold him down it seems he’s extra determined to wake himself up.
I can post a few of his EASY days if you want to see, though they vary a lot.
I really dislike the PU/PD method but it’s the only way I read that will stop him from using us as a prop and teach independent sleeping. As it is I feel like I don’t know if I’m doing it right. When he’s calm enough is it okay to turn him on his side and pat shush to sleep? Or does that take away from the whole purpose of doing the PU/PD? I honestly feel like half of our struggle is the fact that he refuses to stop kicking his legs so much. I don’t really know what else to do. :\
I also have no idea how to go about this method overnight.
Thank you for taking the time to respond!