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« Reply #690 on: October 04, 2005, 16:55:20 pm »
OK, ladies. Sorry it's been a while since I posted. I've been following along, just haven't had a chance to post. But now I'm at my wits end and needing some advice. Olivia has taken good naps since she was 6 weeks old...until about a month ago. I didn't really try anything specific to try to expand them, hoping they would take care of themselves. I thought they might as she had a few days of 2-hour naps again, only to go back to 45-minute naps. Now they're getting shorter. This morning she only slept for 30 minutes. And I've been in and out for the last 45 minutes trying to calm her.

I have tried the longer wind down and that does help her fall asleep, but she still can't get past the first sleep cycle. Yesterday she was able to calm herself down and go back to sleep, but she usually doesn't. I've tried pu/pd (granted I haven't been very consistent with it), but its seems to upset her more the more I try to calm her. Today I even took her out and tried the whole wind down from the beginning, but that only made her more upset. I know she's still tired, b/c she's fussy and rubbing her eyes. She's just very spirited...especially when it comes to naps.

I know some of you have gone in before the first sleep cycle is over and hold them while they settle themselves back to sleep. I've not tried that. For those of you who did that, did it work? And how do you go about it? And has anyone tried anything else? I'm open to suggestions at this point. Someone please tell me I will get past this and she will take long naps again. I need to get things done!!

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« Reply #691 on: October 04, 2005, 16:57:24 pm »
hello girls, it's been a few days since i've posted.  DH has been home and has been helping me tons to keep my sanity!!! :D  :shock:   We are currently living like Fred and Wilma Flinstone!!!  I'm sleeping in the spare bedroom with earplugs and NO MONITOR! :D   I've been having problems getting to sleep and staying asleep so I hope that I'm getting caught up on some needed zzzz's.  My DH thinks he's a comedian...the other night as I'm kissing him goodnight (before I went to my own room :D ) he says to me " I hope I don't get you pregnant tonight".....funny.  Anyways, I don't know what was up with Jack last night but (according to my DH) he was up at 2:45-3:45 then every 45 min after that until 7:30!!!  luckily it was DH dealing with him :D  :D  :D   Jack hasn't woken at night for 2 weeks now so last night is a complete mystery!!!   so sad though....DH goes back to work tomorrow for possibly another 5 weeks :cry:

As for the solid thing:  we first started with rice cereal...1 hour after morning bottle.  It constipated Jack big time!!  Then we moved on to oat cereal.  He wasn't too keen on it so I started feeding it to him before his morning bottle so that he would eat more.  Once he started taking to the oats better then we introduced veggies.  I started feeding them to him an hour after his "lunch" bottle.  Once he was taking 1-2 oz. easily we moved the solids to before the bottle and added in a "dinner" feeding too. 

Gotta go DH just brought me home a latte.... :D
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« Reply #692 on: October 04, 2005, 18:57:51 pm »
whoa! been a long time since i've posted too...

mmm latte. i miss those.just a quick note, mickeymuscles - micah's been waking up around the same time too. last night i was so fed up that i just gave him the paci around 5:45 and he slept another 45 minutes. he used to be able to sleep right thru all the sleep cycles at night but for the past several weeks it's been crazy. we're working on dropping the last nap but i still dont' know what's going on. someone please tell me it's all jsut developmental and it iwll magically go away one day  :D

i don't have any good pics of myself but i'll post one of my lo since i can't figure out the avatar thingy./

oops gotta go micah is scooting backwards all over the place!#
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« Reply #693 on: October 04, 2005, 19:15:52 pm »
Hi, girls!  Doesn't it seem like we are all in sync?  Lots of good days/nights followed by some bad ones.  It's like in high school where AF comes to visit you all at the same time.  (Totally random observations, sorry!   :oops: )
Welcome, Richelle!
Michah'smom:  Sorry about the Cubbies.  I'm a Chicago transplant to St. Louis and have been brainwashed to be a Cardinals fanatic.  We are winning our first NLDS game right now.  Yahoooo!  :D  :D  :D
Things here are going well.  Pretty much as soon as I posted that "we'd just die without the catnap" Ryan has decided to stop taking them.   :shock:   He's actually doing quite well, but it's just like I jinxed myself or something.  He's started taking longer morning and afternoon naps to make up for it and is going to bed a bit earlier.  Too bad, since we've got daylight savings coming up.  (Traci:  Ours is on Oct. 30th (I'm 97.2% sure), if that helps). 
Wish me luck...swimming lessons today and last week we had to miss b/c Ryan was too fussy.  I think that was the beginning of the catnap strike, now that I think about it.
Have a great day!!!
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« Reply #694 on: October 04, 2005, 19:32:17 pm »
kate, must feel nice when your team actually wins  :D
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« Reply #695 on: October 04, 2005, 22:59:45 pm »
Judy, I can't believe that you have had 4 children, you look fantastic!!!
I simply do not know how you do it, I go out of my tree at times with my two!!
And you say you are nursing in the pic by the pool, okay that's it you are my hero!!!! :D  :D
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« Reply #696 on: October 05, 2005, 00:45:41 am »
Judy, that is a great picture of you and your twins. All your girls look like you (mind you, I haven't seen your DH)

I ditto Naomi... nursing in double front carriers standing up at the pool while watching two other kids. OMG... hero status is an understatement!
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« Reply #697 on: October 05, 2005, 01:12:38 am »
Judy, that picture is the BEST  :lol:  - thanks for sharing

Nancy - have you tried extending awake time? - Katie's awake times are between 2.5-3 hours right now, otherwise I can't get her to sleep at all past 45 minutes (if that).  We're almost on a 4+ hour EASY these days.  Also - when things go wacky like that around here, it's something developmental, like teeth, increased mobility (our current battle), etc.

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« Reply #698 on: October 05, 2005, 01:13:02 am »
Hi everyone, I feel like it's been ages since I wrote anything. I'll have to sort out a photo of Daniel and I to put up for you all to see. It's so nice seeing all you guys, having a face to a name is great.

I've been going thru some interesting situations with Daniel lately and I hope you don't mind but I'd like to share my thoughts here with you guys. Any feedback on my ideas are welcome.

We had a really good few days while my mum and dad were here with Daniel, I thought we had everything sorted. Then it all turned to custard yesterday. So, I'm accepting the fact I need to keep him awake and I need to stay up when he wakes early (ish) - closer to 6am then 5am. Or if he wakes and feeds at 5am then get him up by 6.30am! I've let him go back to sleep until 7.30am for 2 days and it's caused real problems getting him back to sleep for his first nap. Basically I think Daniel was getting too much night sleep (equiv of about 13 hours) and he doesn't need that.

Secondly I have decided no matter how he struggles to get his arms out, I must wrap him at night for a couple of weeks longer to get his bodyclock adjusted to sleeping through the night. He doesn't wake (well - he didn't wake) for the 2-3 nights I wrapped him again, so I let him loose, thinking we'd cracked it. But alas.... no..... He's started waking at midnight and 5am and as it's around the same time each night I know it's a habit. But ofcourse, he won't settle without feeding. He kind of did thismorning, but just for 30mins or so. I'm hoping if I get him sleeping thru for a good couple of weeks, when I next try to unwrap him, he might be okay. Has anyone had experience with this?

Thirdly with Daniel's solids I've been giving him breakfast (apple) and lunch (pumpkin), but since the apple was introduced, he's only taking a few mouthfuls of pumpkin. So I'm going to try apple (about 9 mouthfuls) for breakfast, then pumpkin for dinner instead of lunch. I guess I'll have to introduce new foods at breakfast though, so he'll be having some veges at 8am. Oh well, he doesn't know the difference at this age I guess :? I'm going to puree some kumara (I think you guys call it sweet potato) to try tomorrow.

Oh great, he's just woken up after 45mins, not a good day, it's 2pm and so far all he's had is 30mins and now 45mins. If he doesn't go back to sleep I'll put him in the buggy for a walk to get him to sleep longer.   :cry:

Sorry, can't keep typing, crying going on that needs me, but just quickly, Olivia's mummy, how long is Olivia awake for, maybe she can be extended?

Ohhhh he's gone quiet.... Mickymuscles, hope you're getting some more sleep. It's not good when as mum's we can't sleep when we need to. I guess it's similar to what our bubs go through, the less sleep they get, sometimes the harder it is for them to sleep.

Kate, yay for Ryan, how early does he go to bed out of interest? The best night we've had followed by the good day was when Daniel went down at his body clock time of 5.30pm (due to new time of daylight savings it was now 6.30pm). Then he slept all night. But if I put him down at 5.30pm everynight, it just seems soooo early. I guess he wouldn't need a catnap though! Normally he's 6.30pm.

Judy, it sounds like things are really coming together for you and sorting themselves out at night. That's great.

Enough from me, I'll check in again soon and try to keep up this time.
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« Reply #699 on: October 05, 2005, 01:31:21 am »
Judy You look awesome and I love the standing BF pic.  That is just NUTS!  I have said this before but I bow down to you :wink:

Last night Cole fed at 9pm then at 2:20am.  Should I try to eliminate this 2am feed?  Thing is, there is no way he'll go from 9-6...and if he did settle back down at 2 he'd be up at four and I'm afraid he wouldn't settle right away.  He'd likely feed until 4:30 then stay up until like 5:30 or something crazy.  It just seems easiest to feed if he'll go back to sleep. If I don't have a problem with it...is there anything wrong doing it? And I don't DF, I let him wake.  Sometimes it's 9pm, 10pm, 11pm or 1 or 2am :?:  :?:  :?:   Who knows with my little guy.  I guess I don't mind the feed since I'm not working and I've got him on a 1.5 hour morning nap and I nap at the same time!  Maybe if he feeds later tonight (closer to 11) I'll try wake to sleep at 1:30 and see if he makes it to 6.

I am hoping he'll sleep through once we start solids...but I'm in no rush there.  I want to wait a couple more weeks until DH is done his exam so that he can be involved and feed Cole his breakfast.  He'll never see him at night with his early bedtime so I figure it would be nice for him to give him breakfast and put him down for first nap :D

okay, time for bed.  It's a whopping 9:30 pm here but who knows what the night will bring!

mickymuscles sorry to hear about DH off to work again. is he in the army or some such thing?  not sure if you've mentioned it before.  hope you catch up on your zzzz's before he goes.

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« Reply #700 on: October 05, 2005, 01:33:43 am »
Hayley:  Ryan goes to bed between 7 and 8:30, depending on his daytime sleep and our schedule.  Tonight, he went down at 7:30. 
We had our swimming lesson and he had only had an hour nap this afternoon (jinxed myself again!   :evil: ) so he had a short catnap while I nursed him (me too  :oops:  Don't remember doing that before.) from 6-6:40 or so.  I had to wake him up to give him dinner and to see his daddy for a bit.  (They both need that time...and so do I!)  Thought that random nap would totally throw him off, but he seemed to go down fine.
We'll see what tomorrow brings.  Bye, girls!!!
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« Reply #701 on: October 05, 2005, 02:40:58 am »
Traci... I can't remember if you were doing the DF before and had dropped it. I know that when I started DFing, Arwyn still woke habitually at 2 and then 5. I started DFing at 11, which gave me the courage to pat/shush at 2. It didn't take very long... I can look back in the pages of posts to see exactly when but she dropped the 2 am waking with no problem after a few days. You have naps down pat (shush??  :D ) so I'm thinking that Cole can handle dropping the 2 am. He sounds like a textbook/angel baby to me... correct me if I'm wrong. JMO but it worked for me. I didn't do wake to sleep because if there was a chance Arwyn was not going to wake up, I wasn't going to either :!:

So, we are now working on dropping the 4 am waking. I started on Friday night (the 30?) and last night, she stirred but put herself back to sleep!!!!!! Could it be? My goal was to have her sleeping through the night by the time she was 6 months. She is 6 months tomorrow... dare I hope?

We are also working on having 2 long naps (well, 2 naps of more than 45 min.). Today, nap #1 was 1hr 30m. Nap #2 was 45m plus 45m pu/pd & pat/shush resulting in an additional 1hr 30 min unassisted!! Holy smokes people, the crowd goes wild!!!! And the skeptic in me says, Let's see what happens tomorrow.  :wink:

Having mentioned that Arwyn dropped her catnap for 2 days, she needed it back today. GRRRUUUMMMPPPEEE! So, down at 5:15 pm, woke at 6 pm, down again at 7 pm.

Ta ta everyone... off to yoga. I hope I don't return to a bleary-eyed Daddy sitting on the futon with DD again.
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« Reply #702 on: October 05, 2005, 02:45:57 am »
hi gals,

great pics of you all!  Love the one of you BF both girls at the same time Judy.  I think every single one of you look AMAZING!!!

Naomi and the rest-I will post a couple of pics later tonight as well as a longer post to catch up...I know which ones I want to post but of course need DH's help!  I tried to figure it out on my own this morning at 4:30 (taylor was up with her cold), but not happening! :x  :roll:

Erin-thanks so much for all the advice/info. on the solids...really appreciate it!
I started to read Super Baby Food today and it is GREAT!  can't wait to delve in more.

talk to you soon!
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« Reply #703 on: October 05, 2005, 02:48:39 am »
BTW, whoevers idea it was to post the pictures of ourselves was great!  If we feel comfortable I think it is nice to put a face to teh name...and familiarize eachother not just by our lo's pics.

have you all ever noticed that often times when you meet a mom on the street teh first thing we do is ask our kids names, ages, etc...and many times don't even introduce ourselves or do it as we are saying goodbye?  I think it's sad sometimes and always kick myself afterwards.

sorry for the philosophical rant! :lol:
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« Reply #704 on: October 05, 2005, 02:50:04 am »
AAAHHH the computer goons just stole my post.  It was a long one too (who, me??  :oops:  :lol: )

So instead, I'll just post my quick question - for those of you who said you give your LO's peas and prunes - how do you prepare them?   Do you use frozen peas?  Dried prunes? This solids business is doing my head in!

Enjoy your yoga Ankie (I'm completely jealous!)

Bye for now