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« Reply #735 on: October 06, 2005, 04:28:21 am »
Ankie - this is no help to you I'm sure but I am SO glad I'm not the only one with a cranky baby  :wink: Might be because he has a cranky Mummy!  :wink: (Only sometimes!!)

Can you tell I'm not motivated to work today.... Tired, headache  :(

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« Reply #736 on: October 06, 2005, 04:46:09 am »
Hello to everyone :)
You are all a great bunch of goodlooking Mum's I must say...
Sienna doing well, still happy on two naps a day and a 4hrly feed routine. Sounds like eveyone else are all in there happy place at this time aswell!
Our nights are still a little erratic with usually at least 1 waking..and I have been feeding then because I'm not sure if I can handle some crying and risk Ky waking up as they are sharing the room..but may have to go for it soon as I really don't feel she is overly hungry and I may be creating a little habit!! :shock:
I will try and get round to posting an updated pic of Si soon :)
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« Reply #737 on: October 06, 2005, 06:55:38 am »
Jo and Judy - I love the pics. And well done Judy, was it an earlier bedtime than you had been giving the girls? Did you keep waking expecting to hear them? I know I do sometimes.

I can't scroll back far enough to see who suggested I get a remote for Daniel's music. We actually bought a mobile with a remote for that very reason, but you have to point it directly at the mobile for it to work. (otherwise I'd be doing it from bed and not even have to get cold!). So we've moved the music part of the mobile and sat it on his bookcase by the door so I don't have to go in, that definitely helps. I tried wrapping Daniel again tonight, but it was hopeless. I just couldn't. So that's it, no more wrapping. I'll just have to deal with the night wakings if they happen with his music and hoping he'll self settle. Otherwise I might have to start PUPD.  :cry:

Ankie, isn't it devastating when the magic boob doesn't work?!? I had that the other morning, I felt helpless, it's always worked! To help prevent the separation anxiety starting, does your hubby get Arwyn out of bed after naps when he's home even if you're there? If my DH is home then I'm 'not allowed' to get Daniel out of bed. Also, sometimes DH puts Daniel down for naps and night sleeps, just so he's not only used to me doing it.

I keep changing my mind about when to get Daniel up in the morning, but tomorrow I'm going to try feeding him at 5ish when he wakes, putting him back down and then getting him out of bed at 7am. Then keep him up about 2.5-3hours and see what happens. I decided I'd rather start conditioning his body to those times, not like thismorning's 6am start and back in bed at 7.30am. That sort of timing just makes everything too early. I think the reason he's been getting soooo upset is that I was trying to put him back to bed way to early. Perhaps after 12hours sleep he can stay awake 3 hours. I guess I'll know by this time tomorrow night!

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« Reply #738 on: October 06, 2005, 07:12:09 am »
Oops, forgot to say

Happy 6months Cole
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« Reply #739 on: October 06, 2005, 13:54:48 pm »
well, I think he was going through a spurt.  I remember reading yesterday Jo that you couldn't remember if you fed Fraser at 2am and I thought-how do you not remember???  Now I get it...because I fed Cole at 5:20pm, 8pm, 11pm, and then 1:30 or 2:30 (don't remember) and I don't remember at all if I then fed again at 4 or something :?

The only other thing is he was way overtired from skipping catnap and that caused the waking?  but it seemed pretty routine and he ate pretty good at each feed so i'm not going to worry about it.  the other few times he's woken at 8 he's patted down easily so it must have been hunger. 

Of course...right now he's going on four hours this morning *insert extremely confused look*.  AND had a 45 min nap!  so much for my advice to Nancy LOL.  Cole woke at 5:20 but played until 5:50.  He was very tired so i put him down for 7:30 but in retrospect should have stretched him until 8.  As a result we walked DH to the train and went to the coffee shop as I had run out of cream.  Good way to kill 45 minutes.

boy am I rambling today.  i had a question for you ladies too...and now I can't remember for the life of me.  I'm sure it will come to me while i'm feeding.

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« Reply #740 on: October 06, 2005, 15:09:42 pm »
Two exciting events over here: 
1.)  Ryan passed his hearing screening at the doctor's office!  3 days (and 10 pages  :wink: ) ago, I mentioned he had failed a re-screening and he was referred to his pediatrician.  They said he couldn't have better hearing.   :)   Hooray.  The culprit:  (gross warning) a TON of earwax, including a piece the size of my pinkie nail.   :shock:   SICK!!! 
2.)  Had to go back to his orthotics doctor to get his helmet loosened again.  His head is getting so rounded and big (0.4 cm in a week!), they told us his next appointment will be his last!  Wahooooooo!  Three more weeks and that stinky thing is out of here!
Other than that, we're doing well...catnap yesterday, then trouble going to sleep.   :roll:   I've got to just go with the flow and see when he'll drop it for good.
Have a great day!!!!
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« Reply #741 on: October 06, 2005, 15:28:19 pm »
Alright Kate, that is fantastic!  I am fanatical about Cole's ears, but how are you supposed to get at the wax when they say not to use Q-tips :?:  :?   Now that he's getting more wet in the bath I find them better but still it irks me when i see some i can't get out.  I don't think it's as bad as Ryan's though.   And that is just awesome about getting rid of the helmet soon.  That must be such a huge relief :D  When is the next appt?

I must have an angel baby ladies...because I decided to keep Cole up to what would be his regular nap time if he had a normal morning nap.  Well, within 15 minutes anyway.  He was up for 3 hours (normally 2.25)Since he woke we've gone for a walk, fed, played in exersaucer and hung out on the floor.  He went down for nap #2 in two minutes flat!  I think he might drop the catnap without much problem if I extend his first A time quite a bit.  To be honest, I only just extended it to 2 hours and now I think he's already ready to go longer.  I really think at this age you have to go by the clock just as much as by their cues (as Hayley is experiencing)So...I am hoping for a really good nap right now.  Should be at least 1.5 hours. 

Oh, and my MIL is coming to hang with me and Cole tomorrow-wahoooo, i'm going to head out and have a nice lunch on my own and do some much needed shopping and errands without lugging a baby.

Has anyone noticed that I'M the reason this thing is like 80 pages long.  So when you see you haven't read about 4 pages...just assume i've taken up at least two pages :wink:
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« Reply #742 on: October 06, 2005, 16:04:32 pm »
me again.  LOL. i remembered my question.

how many of you with 6+ month olds are still shhh/patting?  I heard that around this time it stimulates them rather than calms them.  I HATE pupd.  I really do...and it's going to be so much harder to teach DH and MIL than patting would be.  I did pupd last night before i realized he was hungry at 8pm.  gosh...was it only 4 weeks ago that i was willing to do that for an hour at a time :oops:  and his huge long Grobag doesn't make it any easier.  okay, let me know.  thanks

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« Reply #743 on: October 06, 2005, 16:06:18 pm »
Glad to hear things are going so well with you Traci.

I have good news...I extended Olivia's A time this morning to a little over 2 hours (I was in the middle of something at the 1.75 mark and couldn't quite get ready for wind down.) I also cut the wind down from 15 minutes to about 7 minutes. I put her in her crib, and she was awake and talking and I thought for sure we were in for a long day. Since she was happy, I left her and went to put a load of laundry in. When I came back she was still asleep and she's been asleep for 1.5 hours now!!! I'm sure there will be more short naps to deal with, but this is the 2nd day of a long nap #1....Wooo-Hooo!!!

Thanks to all of you who suggested extending nap times...I would have never thought of that on my own.
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« Reply #744 on: October 06, 2005, 16:47:00 pm »
Nancy - woohoo!  :D  Hope it continues

Kate - That's great about Ryan's hearing and his head too.  Great pics!

Traci - When I read one of your posts the other day I was thinking about how far Cole has come and the huge slew of problems you had at the start, so hey, you make have taken up lots of room, but at least you've gotten somewhere  :D  I do not pat/shh - and I'm just no good at pu/pd, so if Katie is fussy I will hold my hand on her tummy, not make eye contact, and just leave it there until she falls asleep (or is close to falling asleep) - I like to think I send her "go to sleep" vibes through my fingertips, though now that I have written that down it sounds really dorky.  Of course, I pick her up when she is crying, though I do leave her to fuss sometimes - seems like as she's getting more mobile she has to roll over the place until she finds a comfy spot/position.

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« Reply #745 on: October 06, 2005, 17:06:46 pm »
Goodness gracious... I posted before going to bed and woke up to 2 pages?? Well, having slept through the night once, Arwyn decided to wake at 5 am. I left her there after she stopped crying and then my DH decided to get up so I asked him to put her back to sleep. She slept through until 7.

Any advice on whether I should just let her naturally wake up for this early morning waking and then put her back down using pu/pd or pat/shush? OR, should I do wake to sleep? I mentioned before that I don't want to use this because if there is a chance she won't wake, I don't want to be the one waking her up completely. She stirs even when I enter the room for the DF... I am nowhere close to her crib yet.

Erin... doesn't Katie move all over the place? I couldn't do that with Arwyn... once she is awake, she is mobile and twisting and turning all over the place. It really p!$$es her off when I hold her down... although I have literally placed my whole upper body on hers to keep her still. That doesn't bother her as much but still makes her pretty upset.

Olivia's mommy... Congrats!

Traci... Happy 6 Months Cole! I love hearing about what is happening with Cole. You have had such success since implementing BW techniques and I love hearing about them... gives me hope!

Kate... good news about Ryan. A hearing loss is scary... I have one and I fear Arwyn will have one too. We had a hearing screening at 10 days and will have another at 9 months.

Hayley...  :cry: don't know what I'll do if the boob magic completely goes away. I have a BWing friend whose boob has lost its magic. It has kept me sane for so long I would be lost without that last resource.

Okay, gotta go and entertain my child. She has been up for 40 minutes and motoring along in her walker while I browse the site.  :oops: [/b]
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« Reply #746 on: October 06, 2005, 17:22:01 pm »
yippee ladies!  Only one more day of work!  eventhough I am so happy I am a little sad.  this place has been a part of my life for 5 years now :cry:   Amy I crazy or what?

Anyhow, so sorry I have been a bad poster lately and not keeping up/commenting much on your lo's.  it's just exhausting working w/ the commute and battling Taylor's cold. 

just wanted to pop on and say that Taylor sat up on her own last night and i was the first one to witness it!  I have so far missed many of her developmental milestones so was ECSTATIC to see this one myself! :D   she looked so cute sitting like a grown up girl!

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« Reply #747 on: October 06, 2005, 19:37:11 pm »
Andrea... Yeah Taylor!! It is very amazing isn't it?

Arwyn sat up for just a few seconds on her own for the first time this morning but when I moved, she turned her head to follow me and fell over. It is very cute... her head just kinda kept adjusting for the fall until she was on the ground.

Alright... what is up with the screwed up awake times and naps? I pretty much had given up on extending naps when the long naps suddenly came back a week ago. Now we are down to 1 long nap (I extend it no matter the length of time it takes me to pu/pd) and it is always the middle one.

HOWEVER, I watch her cues to let me know WHEN to put her down. So... this morning she was yawning at 1hr 30m. I put her down and poof, asleep after seconds. The problem is... sometimes she yawns when I think she should not yet be tired. OR, she rubs her eyes. Sometimes this happens only after 1 hr 15 min of A time. I know that she can go longer but if it is just her and I, she gets bored and whiney and continues to rub her eyes.

All this is recent so... is it a growth spurt? Is it all the activity from learning how to sit, creep, etc.? This has been going on since long naps came back. So... for a week, I have been second-guessing when to put her down. Any suggestions?
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« Reply #748 on: October 06, 2005, 20:20:26 pm »
Hello ladies!!
I am so excited to have found you. :) My lo, Sophie was born April 11, 2005.
I have so many questions and am looking forward to joining your chat next week, hope there's room for one more!
I am going to browse this conversation and see where you all have been with your babes.  I tried the site about 2 months ago and didn't really find my niche, so i am really happy to be here thanks to Naomi!
I want to sit here writing and reading for hours, but Sophie should be waking up any minute, and I am sorry to say i have not even showered yet!!!  It's 1:00pm here...yikes!  It's been one of those days.  I really needed to feel connected today. thank you.
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« Reply #749 on: October 06, 2005, 20:24:13 pm »
Great news Kate! :D

Well Danielle slept through the night last night from 7pm - 6.30am! :shock:   It must be 3mths since she did that.  Bizarre, that 12.30 waking is totally habit.  The night before I only fed her the minimum amount although I was worried that I'd be up to her again later but she didn't.  I am tempted to do the water in a bottle idea - but she's never had a bottle and doesn't use a dummy, so don't think it would be a natural transition to weaning it out.  I think she'll hopefully just start to break the habit - don't really fancy doing wake-to-sleep after only an hour of myself being in bed.  The only difference was yesterday she did 3 x 45min naps so maybe because she had a catnap that took her up to 5.30pm she wasn't too overtired.  Oh what to do.  If she has her big nap in the afternoon there's not enough time to do a catnap as well... :?  I'd rather have my two sleep for 2hrs together during the day than wake her after a short one and have her sleep all night - seems I can't have it both ways at the moment.

Anyone elses baby shaking their head for fun?  Danielle often does it when we're out and she looks up at the ceiling at the bright lights of shops.  I guess she's found it looks funny seeing the light flicking fast??

Sorry can't remember who asked (I can't view all past posts today?)...but I don't pat anymore and have never done pu/pd (just doesn't sit right with me).  If D's not settling for a nap I generally just give her a jiggle and she seems to know it's there to help her calm.  I just jiggle for a few seconds and leave the room and she nods off. 

Naomi, how's things going in your house?  Strangely, I've found myself being a lot calmer with Nathan myself in the past few weeks - things were starting to get out of control there for a while and my yelling was starting to escalate and I hate when that happens (seeing some of these TV programmes with parents yelling at their kids freaks me out since I do the same  :cry: ).