Hi,
By the look of our lilypie tickers our dd's were born only 1 day apart!
It does seem strange that your dd will eat fruit but not homemade veg but that aside I suppose in some ways trying to get her to eat homemade veggies instead of jars is like trying to introduce a new food as the tastes are so different.
Have you got Annabel Karmels Superfoods for Babies and Children? I have found it invaluable. It gives some great combinations for foods - some most people would probably never even think of but based on my daughter babies seem to love. The flavours of some of the veg purees in the 6-9 month section are so nice that I have had to stop myself from stealing her food! :lol:
Tried her on a fish puree last night and she loved it. I thought she might hate it as I don't like fish and it is quite common for babies to reject fish. The way Annabel does her recipes however means that new flavours aren't too overpowering and it gives the baby a gentle introduction to them.
Might be worth a go. If you want to try a few of her recipes before buying the book let me know and I will PM you a couple of her recipes that I thought were really good.
If you've got the book already I haven't been much help!! My only other suggestion would be to keep trying to introduce homemade stuff slowly and hopefully she will eventually get a taste for it and prefer it.
Good Luck