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Offline Devon's mommy

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10 mos & still bf 2 sleep. need to stop. need advise.
« on: July 27, 2005, 21:34:26 pm »
Hi Mommies, and Mummies!  My ds is a few days shy of 10 mos. (already!) and we had success with shush/pat and PU/PD and self soothing at around 6-7 mos. when we started his his new routine, but then he got a bad cold, we went on holiday, and now that he is able to pull up to stand in crib we've gone back to bad AP and been bf to sleep since baby refuses to lie down while awake.  We simply just haven't had the patience, with dh working 12 hr days 5 days a week, to do PD and deal with crying for who knows how long - probably hours, to get dh to fall asleep on his own.  He's waking up between 1 and 3 times a night and I would really love for him to go back to self soothing and sleeping thru the night - not just for dh and myself, but for him.   :?

I need some encouragement, advise, tips, strategies, wisdom.  Its so hard to make the poor baby cry when it would be so easy just to give him a boob, and 10 minutes later put a sleeping baby down in his crib.

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10 mos & still bf 2 sleep. need to stop. need advise.
« Reply #1 on: August 08, 2005, 15:21:14 pm »
Hi there!

Are you nursing to sleep for both naps and bedtime? Do you have a nap/bedtime routine in place? Are you still wanting to nurse before naps and bedtime, just not all the way to sleep? I'd be more than happy to help you come up with a plan!
Melissa
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