so if he still has milk at 6.30am but goes back to sleep until 7.30, it might look like this:
6.30 milk, sleep until 7.30
9.30 nap - if he wants to sleep 1.5 hours, I'd let him, but wake him before the 2 hour mark, so you can catch up
11.00 milk
11.30 nap - 1.5 hours
1.00 awake
3.00 milk
3.00/just after milk nap - timing will be variable, but if he is tired because he has not had 2x2hours he can catch up
4.00 awake
6.00/7.00 depending on how hungry he is - milk
7.00 ish - bedtime.
Hi Cheryl! Thanks again for your help. With the second scenario (quoted above) - I think you meant activity at 11.30, because he went down at 9.30 for a nap.
I think I might have to just play each day by ear, and as you say, not get too hooked up on times because every day is proving to be different! I'll show you what happened yesterday.
6.15am wake and feed and fall asleep again!
7.30am Up
9.30am Nap (i gave him a top up here so he wouldn't wake hungry!)
11.30am Up and feed
1.30pm Nap
3.30pm Up and feed
5.30pm Nap
6.15pm Up
7.30pm Feed
8.30pm Bed
So....I did 'catch up' on feeds - but his 'bedtime' is later than usual. He ended up waking up 9.30pm, 10.30pm (feed), 2am(feed) and 5am. I put him back to sleep at 5am (rocked the cot till 5.30am!!) and he slept till 7.30am!!?? You would presume that he would be hungry since his last feed was at 2am? NUP - not too interested at all. :roll: He was grizzly this morning too and tired so he went to bed at 9.20am for his nap.
I know that
I am the problem here - I am totally a control freak and like to know what to expect. I would also like to put Oscar to bed at 7ish each night, but as you can see, it just doesn't work unless he gets up at 6.30am! So, maybe I have to accept that each day will be different. At least there's no screaming when we put him down for a nap, sometimes he smiles when I'm wrapping him and that's lovely.
The nights are hard, I really am getting VERY tired but hopefully it's not for a long time to come too. I wish you could come over for a drink too (Gin and Tonic is my choice!). I am still very down, I'm not sure if I can do too much about that (other than adopt your attitude which is very hard if your not that way inclined!). Lack of sleep, huge belly guts, thinning hair, being isolated from family, horror-mones etc....it all plays a part.
It's more of a roller coaster ride - there are parts of the day when I'm happy - and Oscar really is a beautiful little man, so I'm lucky in many ways, I know.
I say Tracy on our pay-tv yesterday (health channel). I loved watching her but it made me very sad too.....
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