Hello everyone,
My name is Anna, I'm from Poland, but living in Chicago right now. This is my first post here and I've got quiet hope, that anyone could help me.
My daughter Natalia is 18,5 months old and I haven't sleep through the night since she was born. She was never good sleeper - as newborn she usually naped 2-3 times a day for about 20 minutes. I was/am tired and desperate.
Natalia slept in her crib until she turned 7 months - but always woke up pretty often. After that she got cold and I took her into our bed. It wasn't so bad at all - I could feed her, hold her, she could also climb on my head during the night :wink:
She was still waking several times at night. Right now I think I'm use to it, but also like to change something and catch some sleep.
My daughter has very strange habit - she HAS to hold my hand while she's falling asleep and pinch little bit my skin, pat etc. She HAS to have physical contact with me.
Even when she wake up at night, she can't back to sleep on her own - she needs my hand :shock:
She sleeps on her twin mattress in our room - right now we can't got her own bedroom. Until last week she slept with us, but we decided to quit it.
Now she's on her own, but can't fall asleep without me.
I'm ready to do something about it, but I still think what's the best for us.
Should I leave the room? Should I stay? Sit next to her? Lie down? Take away my hand - forever?
I'm confused and stressed. Please help me change it!