is there a difference though between giving her the milk before she gets into bed than letting her have the same amount in her crib? i totally am all for healthy teeth, etc... but at her age it's not realistic for us to brush her teeth right before she goes to bed, we do it at bathtime and it's a hit and miss whether she'll even open her mouth. we do give her water throughout the day and no juice so i could try it but to her i think she finds the actual milk comforting.