It is only early days, but DS2 is so very sleepy during the day he will actually sleep for 12 hours in the day waking only for brief feeds, and then falling asleep on the breast after only a few minutes. We then as a result are having very broken nights not becuase of the waking to feed issue, we were prepared for that, it is because he wakes to feed and then wants to play as he has all this energy from the day time sleeping! He keeps us awake for hours at a time.
I feel like we ahve tried everything that common sense suggests to a - wake him up and b - get him to go back to sleep at night time.
to wake him up during the day we ahve tried undressing him, changing his nappy, delaying his feed when he wakes for it, cold flannels, poking and prodding, picking up, putting down, loud stimulating noise, quiet gentle sounds, silence, baths, going outside in the cold. Nothing makes him stir, if his eyes are open, it is with that glazed I am really asleep look and you turn your back for a second and he is gone again!!!!!!!!!
to put him to sleep at night we have tried ignoring him after ensuring his needs are met, taking him down stairs and stimulating him by playing and chatting with him for a couple of hours ( this works but we loose several hours sleep a night. we thought it a good idea at first as it seemed preferable to even more hours of screaming because he was bored but now we are exhausted!), cuddling him in the dim light after a feed so that he has attention but only the bare minimum and then it is settleing down attention and not really stimulating.
the ironic thing is that he actually is an angel baby really as he will happily put himslef to sleep if he is drowsy and all his needs are met. we just cant get this body clock thing sorted out! Anyone got any ideas as I am whacked out already! :oops: