whatever works for you..with myds..he would not take solids unless they were given FIRST then he drained an 8 ounce bottle on top of that..he was and still is at 2 a big eater...however with my dd who is 5 mths old and triple birthweight, we had to start solids as she was taking over FORTY OUNCES in ONE DAY)..so, she likes her bottle FIRST (;7 or so ounces) then eats anywhere from 2-4 ounces of solids....go figure.....
each child is different. I can relate to you...it just doesn;t work with our family and my other child's needs to feed bottle then 2 hours later do solids.....i don't have enough hours in my day for that....so try a few things and do what is right for you guys.