Hi
I have just joined and have been reading some of the many posts and I really hope that some of you experienced mums might be able to help :oops:
Its a long story so please hang in there. We have a 3 year old son who is generally very good during the day, but at night that all changes!
When he was born he was ill for a short time and had to spend some time in special care then when we brought him home he had very bad colic and we never seemed to get him into any sort of routine. Often at night he would cry until 10pm and we would try everything to settle him but nothing seemed to work, when after hours of pacing or going out in the car he would go to sleep but only sleep for a short time and we would be up doing the same again.
We have tried various ways of getting him to sleep through the night in his own cot / bed, unfortunately for us one of these was the controlled crying method which resulted in leaving our poor child to cry until he vomited everywhere :cry: After that episode we gave up for a while and let him sleep in our bed (which we have learned was another big mistake!) but that at the time and still is the only way we get any sleep.
Anyway we have now read Tracy's book and we thought we would give the problem another go but we tried to go back to basics and build up some trust. We made a big deal out of his 'big boy bed' and my husband was all set to sleep on his bedroom floor but that did not work, even with my husband there in the room with him we ended up with 30 mins of sobbing and eventually Jack threw up. I cleared it all up and tried again but the same happened :cry: Do I keep trying???
Ever since he was a baby he has always been very sicky and he also gets very hot when he is going to sleep, most nights we have the fan on him.
Please has anyone got any suggestions?? We have obviously done alot of 'bad parenting' over the last 3 years but we really don't know what else to do we need some sleep and our bed back! At the moment we just feel like 'Bad Parents'
Thanks for listening! Hopefully someone can help!