I have posted other messages about struggling to get my little 5 month old to settle but I am also having major problems settling her when she wakes in the night. She will wake after a feed. Around 1-2 hours. I know she is not hungry or dirty, and will not settle back down, i pick her up and she stops immediately sometimes, and if I do get her to sleep she rewakes within 1 hour. I think that the cot seems a bit big and it is making her feel insecure, she'll happily sleep in the bed with me, but I don't want this to become the rule. What can I do to make the cot seem less scary and to settle her quicker at night BEFORE she gets herself into a real state? :cry: I'm exhausted, and stuggling to stay patient and sticj with things....I can;t bear to hear her cry...