My DS is 3 mo. old and lately has been doing all kinds of strange things. His naps are getting very inconsistent, and he hasn't been eating well (1-2 oz at a time during the day of EBM, only 5 minutes of nursing while he flirts with me in the evenings, but then he acts like he's starving all night long). But then, after eating only a tiny bit, acts like he's full and life is wonderful. He has been waking up at night A LOT, acting like he's hungry (8 times last night. I fed him twice, DH got up with him after that). Dh mostly just kept plugging the paci back in and pat/sh. We have tried PU/PD, but that only seems to make things worse, and DH doesn't have the tolerance for being with him while he cries, so if we have to use pu/pd, it will probably be pu/pd with me and CIO with DH.
Here's some background info: He is exclusively breastfed, but has taken a bottle before (early on due to latch problems, now because I go to work). He uses a paci to sleep, though when calm (not when trying to go to sleep), he sucks his fists through his blanket. He is still swaddled (sometimes with one arm out), because he gets really jerky and wakes himself up and can't settle if I don't swaddle. We have been on the 3 hour easy (the sample one listed above). Two weeks ago we went on vacation and he got all messed up schedule-wise, but that seemed to be sorting out well 3 days ago or so. He's already had his 3 month growth spurt (while on vacation-that's part of what messed him up in the first place). I started back to work on Tuesday, so there has been a change in his days (he's with Dad all day rather than me).
I have a few theories, but don't really know what to do.
1. This is regression from the schedule change (back to Easy)
2. His growth spurt is just now ending and he's still all weird from that.
3. He needs to go to the 4 hour Easy.
4. He misses his mommy and the way dad does things is different, so he's adjusting.
and 5. All of the above.
At this point, I feel like the only thing I can control is his EASY schedule, since I can't stay home from work or help him adjust back to EASY or change growth spurts. Today we're going to try a 3.5 hour Easy and see if that seems to help him at all to at least eat more during the day. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
If you can think of ANYTHING else that might be causing this, or other things I can do, I would be so appreciative!