Thanks for your replies.
Yesterday Lauren had one good nap. I went in at the 40 min. mark and put my hands on her before she jolted awake. I stayed in her room for 20 minutes- she kept stirring and then settling, stirring and settling. After that she slept another 40 minutes or so! Yeah!
This morning I didn't even have to go in her room- she slept about 1 15 minutes. ALthough, she did still have the binkie in her mouth, so I think that helped soothe her back to sleep if she did wake up.
Her second nap today was 30 minutes! I wasnt even ready to go back in yet, and I heard her crying. So, I shushed her, gave her binkie, and left. She talked/cried for about 20 minutes, then fell back asleep for another 45! So, I think she can fall asleep on her own, IF she has her binkie.
Nightime is still rough. I can't seem to read when she is ready for bed. We try to get her bath, feeding, and wind down done w/in an hour, cuz sometimes she is already crabby after that!
Here is our typical day:
awake at 7 am
E 7:15
A very low key until about 8:15
S 8:15- she usually goes down really well for this nap.
If she wakes up after 45 min. I try to get her to go back to sleep, but in the past, if she cries long enough, I give in and put her in her swing b/c I know she will fall asleep in it.
We have just transitioned to the 4 hour EASY, so she would eat again around 11, be awake until about 12 or 12:30 and be ready for a nap again. Because she can't stay awake for 2 hours it messes up the 4 hour schedule.
We repeat all of the above, eating every 4 hours with a catnap in her swing around 5 and then she is usually in bed (but screaming) about 7:30 and she will cry until she is exhausted (even though we go in and comfort) until 8:30 or later.
Sorry to go on for so long....
Someone mentioned keeping the A time very low key- what do you suggest?? I try to play quietly on the floor w/ her, but even that doesn't make a difference.
I am beginning to realize and accept the fact that Lauren is a touchy and maybe even (gasp!) grummy baby. She is such a challenge. It seems she cries all the time, for no reason, and her mood swings--- they are so unpredictable. One minute she is smiling and the next she is screaming, and we haven't done anything! I am beginning to wonder if she has tummy problems or something...
Thanks for the help and please keep it coming!
Meghan