no idea whether to post this in breast feeding or sleep boards, but here goes!
DS2 was really struggling to go down and to have reliable naps and so on, and i must admit i assumed it was to do with him being so young. we ahven't got a full routine established yet but he is only 5 weeks old. we were ifnding at night we would ut him down at 7pm tired, somtimes already asleep and unrousable after a feed, but he would wake or not settle and scream. we would go and finish the feed check his nappy, wind him, check he wasn't hot or cold and so on, and in the end we had to leave him to cry. He could cry for two hours on and off before eventually settling and getting him to nap in his room was impossible, i was finding he would fall asleep anywhere but.
however on a really horrible screamy day ( him and me :oops: ) last sunday something possessed me to flip him over onto his tummy as he lay on his back on his play mat screaming and like magic he instantly shut his eyes and went to sleep. not ony that he stayed asleep for 2 hours. :shock:
since then we have been putting him to sleep on his tummy everytime and with the one exception of last night, he has put himslef to sleep in mintues with no help and has stayed asleep really well. this includes naps and night time.
I mentioned this to SIL who said her midwife had told her this is a sign of pain like wind or colic. they like to lie on their tummies to releive the discomfort. On reflection i realise that he spends alot of his awake time struggling and straining and goes quite red in teh face. he doesn't bring his knees up to his tummy excpet when he is lying on his tummy in his cot. so i bought some gripe water, i don't know if it is making any differnce or not.
Last night though i put him down after a feed nd hadn't given him the gripe water, he woke 45 minutes later screaming like we have never heard before. i had gone out, so DS tried winding him, which didn't hlep, gave him a few ounces of expressed milk, which didn't hlep, trie dthe gripewater, then more feed then more girpe water and eventually he settled nd slept like a log.
Has anyone else experienced wind, or griping pain for their baby and what did you do to help them? also what do you all think about allowing him to sleep on his tummy? we follow all the other sids advice like no loose covers etc, but i have to admit it is slightly niggly doing somthing that is so obviously against what is advised!