Hello all,
I hope someone can help, I'm having real problems with, guess what, my old friend, sleep :roll: .
(BTW I think this is going to be a long one, so please persevere with me!)
Firstly, the good news - he has 2 or 3 good naps a day, goes to bed at 7.30-8pm, has a feed at 11.30pm, and sleeps with no problems until 7-7.30am.
So it's not that he can't sleep, the problem is getting him there!
It usually takes up to an hour to get him to sleep, and I find it so stressful, I'm coming downstairs and picking an argument with dp every night :oops: . The main probs are:
... ds fidgeting. And when I say fidgeting, I mean practically leaping around his crib. He is swaddled, but that seems to make no difference, and I have got into the ridiculous situation of physically holding him down until he's asleep (for up to an hour). I have to be quite firm, holding both his arms and legs, and, before now, I've even been kicked in the face :shock: . My back & arms end up really sore and I can't carry on doing it, especially as he gets bigger and stronger (he's only 5 months now!)
... unable to do pu/pd. I have tried this, but (& this will sound like a silly complaint) he does not get upset or cry. As soon as I put him in the crib, however drowsy he was, he becomes wide awake, and looks around and stares. However, he never cries (he hardly ever has), which means that pu/pd is useless!
... the dreaded dummy! I never wanted him to have a dummy, but he's a very sucky baby and, as I'm swaddling him, I thought it unfair not to let him suck on anything (it's just for sleeping, never leaves the crib, & I take it out as soon as he's asleep). He now can't go to sleep without it, & he's learnt that, as both my hands are busy, if he spits it out, & then causes enough fuss, I have to let go to give it back, and then his arms & legs are free :shock: :roll: :x . I want rid of it!!
I'm sorry this is so long, and thanks for sticking with me - I really need some help.
TIA
Caroline