Thanks to everyone. I can't tell you how much the support means right now. I am keeping track of my entire day and seeing if I can make more changes. I'll post back more tonight after bedtime.
Davidsmom...my pediatrician and LC are close by, but I don't think it would work since she never feeds well when we are out of the house...spirited kid had too much to look at. I may see if I can get a babyscale to borrow here at home and check that though. Good idea.