Hello,
feeling very down today. We have just decided that the best thing to do is to give up bf. To say I'm disappointed is a HUGE understatement. I'm a SAHM and planned to bf for at least 12 months, but it just hasn't worked out that way. We've overcome a lot of difficulties, and it seems such a shame to give up now, so I am upset about it, but dp and I have talked, and decided it's for the best.
Quick reasons: ds has always preferred the bottle :roll: . We started giving EBM when he was 2 months, and he took to it so well. He finds bf too slow and gets frustrated. Also, he does not seem to be able to keep still when feeding, and flails about like a madman. The only place I have been able to stop this is to feed him in bed, which is fine, but not very practical. The worst problem, however, is that my supply, which has never been good, is really starting to drop (and believe me I've tried everything), and we've been having screaming after every feed.
I wish it could be another way, but now we've made the decision, so please, can I have a {{{{HUG}}}}? Has anyone else had the same issues? I feel like such a failure - how come everyone else can do it and I can't?
Hay ho, nevermind, thanks for listening!
Caroline