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Offline Mia and Lily's Mom

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Waking herself every 10 minutes
« on: September 11, 2005, 02:56:17 am »
Help,  I believe somebody else had a similar problem but I cannot find the post on it.
My dd#2 (almost 2 month old) sleeps pretty well at night (last feed at 9:00 pm, then sleep until 4:00 am and then until ~8:00 am) but naps are horrible and are quickly getting worse.
Have to say that we are also just getting over a cold but for the past 3 days, she will go to sleep either in bed or on my arm (yes we are desperate and trying to get her to sleep anyway we can) but in either place she will start "bucking" (that is literally what it looks like) after about 10 minutes of sleep to the point that she is fully awake and crying again.  We start the patting, sushing again and she will eventually fall asleep again only to wake up again 10 minutes later.  this is the same if she is being held, is laying in bed (if she is in bed, we have to pick her up, no patting, shushing is quieting her down), in the carseat or anywhere else she might fall asleep.
The result of this is of course that she is overtired and pretty much just sleeps and eats, that mommy has no me time ot time to do some one on one things with dd#1,  and nothing is getting done around the house.
By the way, this happens if she is swaddled or not so that is not even helping.

Help, I don't know what else to do and we are slowly going insane.



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Waking herself every 10 minutes
« Reply #1 on: September 12, 2005, 00:42:49 am »
Here's some information about partial awakenings. I copied it off the Teaching Newborns sleep thread:
Information on Newborn Falling Asleep/Partial Awakenings:

Okay, here's what you might see in the beginning:

Light sleep mode is about 10 mins., then there's a jolt and then another
10 mins. and another jolt into deep sleep. Listen to his breathing and
look at his body language, his breathing will deepen and become quieter
when he settles into deep sleep, his body will look as though it has
melted into the mattress, completely relaxed.

In the beginning of starting this process, you'll probably experience this:
Settling down, falling asleep, eyes closed, shallow breathing for 10 mins.
Then a jolt happens and he will sigh/move head, and his breath will
quicken and he'll grunt and wake up. My little guy was notorious at doing
this, and I grew to hate the sound of the grunt "oh no! he's waking up!"
BUT, after a few days of consistency, he did this less, and learned to
continue to fall asleep after the first 10 mins.

I put a clock in Brendan's room so I could keep an eye on the time. Once
he was quiet and in the beginning of the process, I would stay with him.
When he stirred, I put my hand on him and shielded his eyes. Once he
relaxed, I would time it again, and sure enough, there was another stir at
ten mins.

Sometimes an infant will let out a high pitch wail at the 10 min. mark,
which will wake him. By putting your hand on him, you help him learn how
to resettle when this wail happens.

for the first few days, you will need to be there for some time.. but
don't worry, you will be able to spend less time once you get the sense
that he can handle the jolts on his own.
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« Reply #2 on: September 13, 2005, 02:34:22 am »
Just wanted to let you know that we're dealing with the same thing - Abby is 9 weeks and goes to sleep on her own for naps, but wakes about around every 10 min as well screaming.  I have tried a couple times to stay in there while she's going to sleep, but putting my hand on her or whatever doesn't seem to help, she goes from what looks like dead asleep to screaming instantly.

Don't really have any solutions - but I've mostly left her alone when she does this and she normally settles within a minute or two (if not I go and try to settle her).  She is getting better though in the last week or two I think, so maybe it's just an age thing.

Just wanted to let you know that you're not alone!
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