Things WILL get better! I spent the first 5 mos taking Nathan to appts with GI specialists, taking him to the ER for dehydration, and racking my brain to figure out how to get him to take the bottle. He grew into a silent refluxer after a few months, so he didn't vomit that much after that. I would say that things were at there worst around 4 or 5 mos(when he was sitting more), and now things are MUCH better. He is still on meds and still struggles with the bottle, but each day is better than the last.
1 year old is the magic age for most kids with reflux. I know it seems like forever away, but hang in there! Have you been able to elevate her after meals and while sleeping? Another trick we did was to feed Nathan w/o stopping to burp, and then pop in the pacifier afterwards. I would then just rub is back a little instead of the pat pat burp, and I would make sure his tummy wasn't pressed up against me or that he wasn't bent too much at the waist. Then if he happened to puke, the pacifier forced most of it back down. Yuck, I know.... :shock: