Hi. Hmmm, I am thinking that maybe she didn't want the dream feed because she got to bed a little bit later that night, and just wasn't hungry for it yet. If you aim for the 7 or 7:30 bedtime, she should be more willing to take a feed at 10-11. I personally could NEVER stay up until 10:30 or 11 for the first couple months. I think there were days when I went to bed at 6! So I either got hubby to do the dreamfeed, or if both of us were zonked, I set the alarm for 10 or 11. I figured that if I woke up to feed DS at this time, then one day, he would be able to sleep longer at night, and I would finally be able to stay up until after dreamfeed. I hope tonight's DF goes better!