I'm desperate, fellow Mamas. Please help me.
A little background. I'm a single mom to an eleven month old baby girl, who for the most part, is an incredible little person who warms my heart. BUT...I'm getting a little resentful at her sleeping habits and I know that's not healthy for me or her. I need to change things and I need to do it yesterday, I just don't know how and am really hoping that one of you will be able to help me.
The only way that she can go to sleep is by nursing first. That's fine .She's an exclusively breastfed baby and I'm now just starting to introduce formula to her. it is my hope that in the next month or so we'll be down to only nursing at night and maybe first thing in the morning. Up until this point the only way she falls asleep is by nursing. She also doesn't have much of an interest in eating solids, so still, breastmilk is her primary source of nutrition.
The problem is that she wakes up every two to three hours, all night long. All. Night. Long. Her first wake up in always, without fail, an hour after she goes down for the night. I've tried leaving her for a few minutes but she just screams and screams. I can't handle that and neither can she. The only thing that will calm her is to nurse. She isn't hungry, it's a comfort thing.
I need to stop this. Obviously.
Two weeks ago I moved her crib from my bedroom to her own room and now instead of falling back to sleep with her in my bed, she sleeps in her own bed all night, so we're making progress. This night waking has got to stop.
Thanks so much in advance, ladies. I really appreciate any and all advice. At this point, I'm hanging on by a very thin thread.
Cheers,