Thank you so very, very, very much.
This is stupid of me, but when we go to 2 naps am I supposed to fit 2 bottles + supper solids into 3 hours instead of 4 hours? I'd think he'd get indigestion? I'll look at the EASY forum and see if there's something there.
I think at least MIL believes me about the catnap now. DS missed his catnap yesterday -- I went to church and MIL was going to put him down but at 6 pm he was still awake after having woken from nap 2 at 3:00. So I said forget the catnap, he was fussy but we stayed with stories and quiet activities etc. Fed him early and he did not eat well at all, almost fell asleep on the bottle then had a HUGE spit up when burping, cried, then just passed out at 7:15 pm. The night went ok, but he woke early this morning and still seemed tired so probably will want to nap a lot.