Hi all
This is my first post.
I have a plan in my head which is basically PU/PD but feel with my son's age of almost 1 that, although I agree with Tracey's 'start as you mean to go on', a more gradual approach may be better for him.
Happy, active baby who loves his food and breast was sleeping from 10pm - 8am from 3 mths to 5mths- don't know how he did it I just thought he was brilliant especially as we were moving house. At 5mths he cut his first tooth and we we moved again (settlement times did not marry up, it wasnot our choice!) Very unsettled, into ourbed one night we all got some sleep. I still remember his face in the morning when he rolled over and saw me next to him. Bliss. Needless to say he has been there ever since.
I have a number of challenges in my quest for a good nights sleep- anything longer than 2 hours.
*DS wakes between 3 and 5 times a night - in bed from 7/8pm till 6am
*he uses my hair to fall asleep in the early half of the night and as the night progresses to settle more quickly, the breast.
* He has 2 naps a day and the A is getting longer and more adventurous - lots of crawling
*Each nap and at night is on the breast for a short while then grabs a handful of hair and sucks his thumb
*1st nap is about 9am (was 40min, now in school hols 1 1/2 hrs )
*2nd nap was at about ! 1:30 now about 3pm (length was 40 now same as 1st - which is fantastic as I have been working on bringing those times up with a stronger routine
*School drop off and pick up will test thisas each way is about 20min and he is often woken after 20 min or 40min after we come home.
I know it will be easier when he goes down to 1 nap but I hope that won't be for at least another 6 months.
I hope there's no word limit on this forum..Sorry!
Also, as he is avidly crawling I have put his cot mattress on the floor of his room with a spare next to it for me and we are sleeping there as I am worried he will crawl right over the top and hopefully he will get used to his room as at the moment it makes a great nappy room.
My reservation with PU/PD is that he will be going cold turkey on the breast, the bed, the hair and me and it seems harsh to do that all at once. I've heard Tracey's diet analogy but hey we all know diets don't work.
Could I not sleep in his room for a while then move him off the floor to the cot me still on mattress?
I just don't know where to start and need some clear thinking voices
Thankyou all
Jo